Reclaiming self esteem for urban gay men

Are you a gay man,  having trouble in your relationships with others? 

Are you in or have you recently been in a relationship where you feel that your partner is more important that you are?

Ever feel like a failure in your relationships and blame yourself for things going badly?

Do you find yourself unable to stop thinking about your last date, and why he vanished quickly, and apparently, "was just not that into you?"

Often tell yourself, " if I just try harder things will work out fine".

Ever wonder,  what happened to the charming, sexy,  personable, great person you were first involved with and why he has turned so different now?

Numb or exhausted, burned out and over,"the scene" ?

Online sites like Connexion, Manhunt, Adam4Adam, Match.com and Gay.com aren't really working out anymore?

Can't meet anyone in the bars, because everyone else is wasted? Hoping things will get better, but never do.  

Answered yes, to more that two of these?  If so, you are not alone or uncommon in today's urban gay culture here in Southern California and beyond.

The focus of my practice is working to resolve relationship woes and rebuild your self esteem and set your self free and Get Back on Track again.

Still wondering who's the real guy inside you?  Who's still hiding underneath, your bod, hot car, parties, drugs, drinks, short lived friendships, hooking up online and bad dates. 

Help,  fortunately is not as far away,  as it  may seem.  I can help you start and maintain what you've felt has been missing for way too long.

Time for recovery and renewing hope.  As much as you might doubt it now, reaching out and talking confidentially to someone is the way to go to break free and allow a new beginning....to take place.

I hear you loud and clear!

My name is Chris Lawver and I once struggled with the same issues.  I went on to rebuild a sense of confidence, and self authentication. Now as a licensed, therapist  coach and counselor for the last several years in Los Angeles, I have discovered how to help others- break free and live a rewarding and satisfied life.

8 Key Goals you will obtain by working with me. 

1) Renewed sense of self esteem

2) More positive outlook.  

3) Relieve tension, stress, worry and sadness and lonlieness.

4) Begin to know yourself and develop self confidence.  

5) Live more authentically, with peace of mind.

6) Getting out of the addictive cycle, with sex, drugs, online dating hooking up, drinking and endless partying.  

7) Finding out you are not the "crazy" one. 

8) Living a satisfying life with fulfillment, and a feeling of being in control.